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Monday, October 22, 2007

Frankenstein Goes to Church

On Sunday I applied the full Frankenstein mask and off we all went to church. This picture is of me & the gang AFTER church, which is why I look slightly hammered. I teach Isabelle's primary class, the 7-year olds, and I come home so exhausted each week. And they're not even naughty!!! They're a really cute, reverent and teachable class! The song leader even said in sharing time that my class was the best and they all got to have a turn coming up to the front to spin the song wheel. Where's my stamina?

I made Mike be IN the picture here! No hiding behind the lense as the "photographer" now that I've discovered self portraits. (thanks Jill, for the SP inspiration! I love your SP's!)

Speaking of Jill, reading her "Sunday Thoughts" posts have become a part of my Sabbath Day ritual. I come home from church, get into my fleecey flourescent Hello Kitty jammie pants, and settle into Jill's Sunday Thoughts with a good snack. She'll probably never know how she impacts little ol' me, a complete stranger. She teaches the Marriage & Family Relations class and always has a good snippet that get my perspective centered for the week to come. Here is something from her lesson this last Sunday that I really enjoyed:

In the February letter, the First Presidency taught that by teaching and rearing children in gospel principles, parents can protect their families from corrosive elements. They further counseled parents and children
“to give highest priority to family prayer, family home evening, gospel study and instruction, and wholesome family activities. However worthy and appropriate other demands or activities may be, they must not be permitted to displace the divinely-appointed duties that only parents and families can adequately perform” (First Presidency letter, 11 Feb. 1999; cited in Church News, 27 Feb. 1999, 3).

This quote from the Marriage & Family Relations manual instantly made me think of Elder Oak's wonderful talk this last conference. Oh, how I loved that talk. He strongly taught us that nothing--absolutely nothing--should interfere with our essential routines and activities in the home. Nothing, said Elder Oaks, should interfere with family prayer, scripture study, family home evening and even dinner together.

I so appreciate this reminder from Jill's lesson! I found myself cutting & pasting stuff I loved from her lesson and quickly realized I was basically copying her entire post to put on my blog--so just go here to read the outline of her lesson. Her lesson, from the manual, covers how home should be a safe place of belonging and soft words. I love this quote, directly from the manual (i think):

"Remember, 'a soft answer turneth away wrath' (Proverbs 15:1). We must never, out of anger, lock the door of our home or our heart to our children. Like the prodigal son, our children need to know that when they come to themselves they can turn to us for love and counsel."

Oh, do I EVER need to work on this! I have a short fuse. Also, the lesson covers the value of spending individual time with our children. Okay, now I'm just reciting her entire post again! Seriously, go read it!

(Well, I can't resist one last little bullet point: she also covers the importance of extended family. AMEN to THAT.)

Love to all & have a great week!

13 comments:

shron said...

the brows are still looking good! lots of big blues in that picture.

Cecily R said...

The self portrait picture is awesome! I love pictures like that...so much more than the posed, boring ones.

Gosh Crystal, I stink at after church-ness. Jon and I teach the 5 and 6 year olds and they are, in fact, naughty, so I look like I got chewed up and spit out by the time we get home. Whoever said Sunday is a day of rest never taught Primary...but we love it anyway.

oda41143 Missy said...

I love the self portrait, you should frame it. Notice whose entire face made it to the self portrait? Poor little Max only got one eye in :) Love it!!

kay said...

thanks for that reminder crystal!

i'm going to print that out and put it on my mirror to help remind me about the importance of raising Godly children.

Jen Hill said...

That is a super cute picture of your family! What adorable kids you have. I love candid shots as well. They show so much more personality.

Really good points and reminders. I find that my kids imitate everything they see me do, including my mood. No big revelation here, but it is pretty scary to realize how great your influence is in the home.

Best, Jen

Wendi said...

Girlfriend, I love your Sunday outfits! You can dress! You little hottie.

PS Stop being anorexic.

janna said...

cute pictures~

I teach the SUNBEAMS!!! & If i for get to bring my ((gold fish crackers)) they act out.

Love them, but they are live wires~

I have lived in IF for 8 years, 5 years in SLC, and 3 years before that in IF... My dh is from here. I grew up in Portland, OR. :)

Laura said...

What a GREAT post! I LOVED that quote from the first pres. I just spoke at enrichment night on this very topic! SO true isn't it? We may keep the bad out of our home through t.v and internet but are we too busy to bring in "the good?"

Laura said...

PS Beautiful kids!! All those blue eyes!!

Michelle said...

Great self portrait! I would love to see a pic of those Hello Kitty jamies :D! Thats cool though, I have some Tweety bird ones.

Thanks for the great quotes. You rock!

KATE said...

I love the pix!! Your family is gorgeous!
Thanks so much for the "reading material" I loved it!! Something I always need to hear.

Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

Great pix! Great post will have to go read the words you left out! :D I just getting around to reading everyone's posts ... got stuck our at Dawn Meehan's (because I said so .. Pokemon story) she had gotten a negative mormon comment and I had to leave a more positive understanding one.. So did lots like Cecily. Any way thanks for sharing.

Bond Girl 007 said...

what cute pictures specially of the whole family...I don't know where I would be if I tought little kids...that is a tough job...your family is soooo darling. I too love Jill's posts on Sunday...she does have a special way of touching people.

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